[demelia]

I'm 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years is 34, married with 5 kids. He said he's getting a divorce. We once lived together but he moved back in with the wife, and kids. He said he needs to help with the kids. They don't sleep in the same bed.

I don't really want to be with him because it bothers me that he's married, and I think I'm too young for all that bs.

But he has help me out a lot on following my dream. Now my life is on track I don't want him to say I'm leaving him because life is getting good.

What could I do?

[ScottGem]

First, why did you originally post this in Computers for Beginners? Did you expect a software solution to your problem?

So this man cheated on his wife for 4 years starting when you were a teenager! So when he wife takes him back he leaves you. And you ask what you should do? You should have never got involved with a married man in the first place. Move on and find your own man.

[Alty]

Find a boyfriend that's not married. You're his sex toy, nothing more. He went back to his wife because she's his wife. They're married, they have a commitment, they have kids. He won't leave her for you, count on it.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yep, you leave him and find someone who is not married, he went back to be with his wife most likely not to pay child support or he wanted to be with her, he could always help with the kids, keep them some of the time or something.

You don't need to be with him until he has left her and is filing for divorce.

[talaniman]

Tell him thanks for the help, but you got it from her and disappear from his life. Even with a divorce which is highly unlikely, he still cheated on his wife and kids, and that's what you better be paying attention to. Disappear and get you own guy.

Forget that step kids and marriage crap with this guy.