[babybear12345]

Hey everyone, I'm in high school and I have 2 bffs. Lucie and Paige. My best friends Lucie and I were always together, but then she began smoking weed so I stopped being friends with her. But my friend Paige is still sort of friends with her, but not as much as before. Now I've been with Paige a lot and lately I've noticed she seems like she doesn't want to hang out anymore. Like at recess today, it's the first time she does this, she and another girl were leaving the lockers and I was coming late. When I came I saw them leaving and I said wait for me, but Paige said we'll meet you upstairs and I said why you can't wait, and she's like we'll see you upstairs, but I said I'll be two seconds and then she came. I'm worried maybe she didn't want to be with me anymore.Or that I did something. I wanted to ask her, but at lunch we ate together and talked about stuff we always do. So do you guys think I'm over thinking the whole thing or does she really hate me? Please help!! Thanks in advance.

[lovely_lady123]

Hi, I think you would be better to ask her about it, if she says everything is fine don't take it as an insult because everything probably is fine! Don't push it though, keep hanging out... but a little more so she does not feel like your leaving her. If she is deciding to leave you alone find a new buddy I am sure you can!