[lovely_lady123]

(This is not really a question) My kids are just so helpful, they love their mommy and daddy, and rarely complain... exept for Hannah and Tori who are just babies and they cry a lot :) I have 7 kids James is 18, Caleb is 16, Paige is 14, Juillet is 10, Adrianna is 3, Hannah and Tori (twins) are 2 months! I know that is a lot of kids to take care of but James, Caleb and Colten (my husband) help A lot! Does anyone else have 7 kids?

[Fr_Chuck]

I would only ask why the other two older ones are not doing a lot to help

[lovely_lady123]

Oh, Paige and Juillet they also help a lot but mostly with the babies, and they are busy with homework, soccer, dance, swimming and tennis (so are the boys). Colten drives them everywhere, as I have medical needs! I just love my Family!

[J_9]

Do you think it wise to post their names on an international website?

[J_9]

Here you have 4 kids?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...ds-655730.html

[Alty]

Here you have 4 kids?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...ds-655730.html

Good catch. Maybe not all 7 of her kids actually cared for the family dog. Maybe only 4 of them are sad about the loss.

After all, mom doesn't really seem that upset, she did say "our pet dog died last night in her sleep, and they did not want to watch my husband burry it". Never in my entire life have I referred to any of my fur babies as "it".

But that's for another thread. This one is odd enough. How do you go from 4 kids to 7 kids in the same day? Very interesting.

[J_9]

Good catch. Maybe not all 7 of her kids actually cared for the family dog. Maybe only 4 of them are sad about the loss.

After all, mom doesn't really seem that upset, she did say "our pet dog died last night in her sleep, and they did not want to watch my husband burry it". Never in my entire life have I referred to any of my fur babies as "it".

But that's for another thread. This one is odd enough. How do you go from 4 kids to 7 kids in the same day? Very interesting.

The only thing I can think of is that the 3 youngest don't understand what happened.

However, my spidey senses are tingling.

[Alty]

The only thing I can think of is that the 3 youngest don't understand what happened.

However, my spidey senses are tingling.

Well then it's a hit, because my spidey senses are tingling too. We've both been at this for a long time. We can smell a troll from miles away. If I had to bet cash, I'd bet on our senses.

[Chardel]

Hhhhhmmmmmm... yeah, funny how the OP. has not made any further comments...

[Alty]

Hhhhhmmmmmm... yeah, funny how the OP. has not made any further comments...

Past experience has shown that once their lies are brought out into the open they either come back and tell more lies, or stop posting.

If this was an innocent mistake on her part then why refrain from posting? The fact that she hasn't come back makes my spidey senses tingle even more.

I'd bet she doesn't even have kids.

[lovely_lady123]

I am sorry, but a busy mom of 7 with health problems does not always have time to go on the internet! Oh, and what do you mean J_9 by I olny have 4 kids? I really did care about our dog but not as much as my husband and 4 older kids, the 3 yonger kids I think don't understand as much (maybe Adrianna a little). Thank you for the feedback, I may not always be avalible.

[Alty]

! Oh, and what do you mean J_9 by I olny have 4 kids?

In your other thread you stated that you have 4 kids.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/how-do-help-kids-655730.html

[lovely_lady123]

Oh, guess I did. Opps sorry I have 7 kids!

[DoulaLC]

It is only a matter of time... :)

[Alty]

Oh, guess I did. Opps sorry I have 7 kids!

No problem. Just know that we do catch things like that, and it does make us question things. We've had a lot of people come to this site, lie to our faces, so when we see something that doesn't jive with other posts, we get weary. We've been burned before, so we're a bit fearful of fire.

I hope you can understand that. :)

[lovely_lady123]

Oh, I do! I guess once you have been burned, you certainly would be very fearful of fire!

[Alty]

Oh, I do! I guess once you have been burned, you certainly would be very fearful of fire!

Yes, and sadly we've all become a bit jaded. We're more likely to not trust at first glance, because we've been burned so many times. There are people that have come to this site, have told a story that brought tears to our eyes, we've reached out, even spent entire nights online with them just to help, only to find out it was all a lie.

When you give your heart over and over again only to have someone stab it, it's very hard to trust.

Sadly it's the nature of the internet. You're going to get people that lie, and if you care about people enough to spend time helping them, then it's going to hurt when you find out they lied.

[lovely_lady123]

Yes, I have been lied to many times before! Some people that I loved very much and others not so much

[Alty]

Yes, I have been lied to many times before! Some people that I loved very much and others not so much

It doesn't seem to hurt less if it's someone you don't care about, does it? It hurts the same, especially if you tried to help that person.

Perfect example about what I've been talking about. There's a poster on the site right now, and if I had to bet, I'd bet that she's lying. Now, I could be wrong, this could all be true, but I'm really hoping, for her sake, that it's a lie, because if it's the truth, she's in it up to her forehead.

No matter what, there's really no one on this site that can help her even if her story is true. We can try to get her to do the right thing, but in the past 38 weeks it seems that she's not been able to do so, so I don't see why she'd start now.

Here's where my jaded heart comes in. I really could care less about her, well, not completely, I do care if she lives or dies, and if I allow myself, I do care even more then that, but right now, my main concern is her unborn child, because with this 16 year old for a mother, it doesn't have a snowballs chance in hell.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens-health/im-16-38-weeks-prego-but-parents-wont-take-me-hospital-657300.html

[lovely_lady123]

No, it does not seem to hurt you as much if it is someone you don't care for!