[raoul.89]

I was in a relationship with the wonderful and amazingly talented girl for 4 years and we broke up and now we mutually agreed to meet for one last time and I am completing whether to go ahead with the same or not.

A little background about us

Our relationship always had breakups and patch ups mostly because she was a little too much excited about being with me and she wanted my attention all the time and I tried doing my best but I guess my best wasn't good enough for her because of which was broke-up and patched up like 3-4 times in a 4 year long relationship

Last December she we again had a fight and we both decided that we needed a break. After about 25-30 days of no contact I initiated the conversation and I apologized for not being able to give her time and I said I am ready and willing to do anything she wants me to, but she wasn't the same. She said she doesn't want the relationship anymore because she doesn't feel the same anymore and she asked me to move on as well. I was not okay with it so I convinced her and she got back to me. But something wasn't right she started getting very angry and very irritated at me for little little things and we had a fight and after about a 2 months of getting back she wanted to break up again and this time anything I did, didn't make a difference and she still stands strong on her decision of not getting back.

After a week after the breakup we decided to meet up and she said she wants me to be her friend. So we texted and spoke like once in a day and this went on for about a week and I ended up sending her a poem about my feelings for her (HUGE MISTAKE) after which she said she doesn't want to even be friends with me and I freaked out and I went to her place and ended up following her to the restaurant she was going to have dinner with her friends. Then she involved her parents and her dad asked me to not to impose myself on her and to leave her alone. She also changed her mobile number, deleted her Facebook and changed her email IDs and she also asked our mutual Friends to not to talk to me.

I didn't like the way her dad spoke to me over the phoe because he was stating that it was all my fault all along (following her, calling her, begging her and all) and I said I want to meet you to explain my side of the story. But my ex got involved while I was speaking to her dad and said it will not look good if I meet her dad to talk about all this and she asked me to meet her once to close this once it for all.

So here I am wondering whether I should really go and meet her.

[Homegirl 50]

I think you should cancel the meeting and be done with it. This relationship is over and done with. Leave her alone. Tell her not to contact you and you won't contact her