[AriesonFire]

I'm 21 years old, had several broken relationships and I finally found my current boyfriend. He's absolutely wonderful and treats me great, he also looks great too, imagine Vin Diesel.

He's 25, mature, intelligent and It's very apparent we care about each other a lot. The issue is I am not very trusting and possessive and he has lots of female admirers.

I know subconsciously he wouldn't cheat on me but when he mentions other females watching us, or trying for his attention that really sets me on fire. Something as simple as him liking another girls Facebook picture makes me upset. Ridiculous, I know.

I know I need to speak to him about it but I'm scared to. I don't know how to mention my problem without sounding just absolutely crazy.. any suggestions?

[talaniman]

Maybe you have a lot of past baggage and its getting in the way of you enjoying yourself.

Never sweat the competition, real or imagined, and for sure think before you act or speak. Maybe you have not known each other enough to just trust, but let go, and don't let the past ruin the future. You practice not putting negative thoughts and feelings into actions until you have yourself under control, and are cool, calm, and collected.

I doubt he is about changing because of your fears, especially if this is a new relationship. Just keep practicing self control at all times.

[angryme48]

I've been married for 21 yrs... yes we have our problems like every marriage does,but the one thing we always do is GIVE ONE ANOTHER LOVE!!