[lesbianlover]

My best friend hasn't been great friends with my girlfriend and now she won't talk to me at all just because I won't break up with her. I don't want to lose her as a friend though. She is someone that I can usually go to when I need help. But now that it's something she disagrees with, she is being stupid. I'm NOT going to break up with my girlfriend for her!! What should I do to keep her as a best friend and keep my girlfriend? I don't want lose either of them. They both mean a lot to me.

I tried to talk to her today but hse wouldn't say anything. I 'm trying to confront her but she is facing her problems. Please give some advice before I hit her in her face!!

[kassiking]

Your friend sounds a little jealous. Your girlfriend should be your best friend and You should not break up with her just because your friend is having issues. I know you say that you don't want to lose either one of them, but in my opinion ( and its only my opinion) I would concentrate more on my relationship with my girlfriend, who you love, rather than a friend who is full of jealousy. When she gets over herself she will come back around, but until then, I would stop stressing. I learned along time ago that you have to make yourself happy before anyone else. And your girlfriend should be someone that you can go to when you need to talk. But definitely don't break up with your girlfriend just because someone else wants you to. Tell your friend how much you value her as a friend and that you want to continue with the friendship but that this your life and you make all the decisions but you are always willing to listen to her advice even though you may decide not to take it.