[vikkilee]

Hello I’ve met up with my son’s dad, and I had no intentions of getting close to him because I still have feelings for him and didn’t want to get hurt. So I started hanging around and we got closer over 2 and half months. We were like a couple without the commitment, he rants and raves about other people he slept with 6 times a day with me. We muck around a lot but when the crunch comes, he kind of pushes me away, or stops.

I feel It Is my fault I reckon if he’s had a couple of drinks or pills he will have sex with me. He says he loves me, has butterflies in his heart. He flirts with every girl just about and he asked me if while we’re seeing each other If I want him to not sleep with anyone else. I said I would prefer him not to. The next day I rocked up there and he had been asking a 21 yr old out and then slept with her. He said it’s just different with them. I use a condom with them and not you.

I barely get sex I feel so ugly and stupid. I’m being Immature he’s done nothing wrong then he asks to move Into my house, and wants to cuddle and kiss like a couple like nothing Is wrong. My heart gets stomped on constantly and I'm supposed to like it.

He constantly gets jealous of my friend and other males I’ve never touched. Why does he love being around me but not as much sex as I'd like. Is there something wrong with me? I'm so sick of getting hurt, but I'm an idiot letting him do It.

He sleeps with other girls he says are just a ****, but me, he want me just to hang out cuddle, kiss, and sex maybe, If he’s bit drunk or had a couple of pills to relax him. Why doesn’t he want to have sex with me what’s wrong with me?

[Synnen]

I have a better question for you: Why are you letting him use you and treat you like dirt?

The ONLY thing wrong with you, that I can tell, is that you let this guy walk all over you.

[talaniman]

Leave him alone and have nothing more to do with him except where the kids are concerned, so you will get a better partner.

This is voluntary misery, so unvolunteer.

[Fr_Chuck]

He is using you, to keep himself amused, keep from being loney or just to mess with you.

Why you allow him to treat you like a low cost booty call is beyond me.