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    nicolegoddard Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 28, 2012, 06:45 PM
    I think my mom cheated on my dad when they were married?
    So I'm 13 now, and my parents got divorced when I was 6. My mom then started seeing my stepdad soon after. Then they got married when I was 9. Today my 10 year old stepsister told me that her mom said that my stepdad slept with my mom while my stepsisters parents were still married. Then I realized that both of our parents got divorced around the same time, so I think that my mom might have cheated on my dad. What do I do? I get really mad every time I see my mom or stepdad now and I've been trying to avoid them all night. Should I ask my mom or my dad? And should I tell my mom about what my stepsister's mom said about her? The whole concept scares me and I've been crying all night. I need help soon, please.
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    Mar 28, 2012, 07:13 PM
    You mind your own business and get over it. It does not effect you and you are completely over actiing. If it did happen , it was years ago. They are grown up and if they did, it was their choice. Your mom if she did, would lie, if she did not, you will offend her with even asking.

    Most likely your step sister is trying to upset you and is just saying things that will cause trouble.
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    Mar 28, 2012, 07:30 PM
    Really, I was through my parents divorce when I was a kid. It's not an easy thing to deal with but you will make it harder for yourself if you start digging into these kinds of details. You are better off just forgetting about it and realizing that they are adults. Although in a round-about way, it does involve you, it really isn't your business and won't make anything better for you to get into this.
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    Mar 29, 2012, 02:58 PM
    Hey at least u have a dad

    It's harder for me growing up with just my mom so don't complain.
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    Mar 29, 2012, 06:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by spunkymonkey213 View Post
    Hey at least u have a dad

    It's harder for me growing up with just my mom so don't complain.
    And really now... what does that have to do with the original question? That's pretty harsh to come in here and say something like that. I didn't see anyone make a comment like this to you in the question you posted.
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    Mar 30, 2012, 05:07 AM
    Kid, do not bring up the past unnecessary. Your parents have their ways in this matter and you bulging in is just unnecessary and problem-causing. Don't be a trouble maker now, please.
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    Mar 30, 2012, 07:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by spunkymonkey213 View Post
    Hey at least u have a dad

    It's harder for me growing up with just my mom so don't complain.

    I think you should take a look at the AMHD rules - you continue to post completely irrelevant "answers" to questions. I don't know if you don't read the questions and answers or are using AMHD as a blog.

    Please stop and don't post if you have nothing to contribute.
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