[Manigirl317]

My mom has A boyfriend who is always cursing her out in arguments.she then marries him.then his babymother doesn't want her son who is 15 and is ugly.so of course they take him in. My house is only a two bedroom so he has to sleep in the living room on a blow up bed. He hangs out with the low life weed smokin kids at the high skool. I'm going to b going to the middle skool that is in the same skool as his and I don't want to be known as the stepp sister of a crackhead. I'm going to midfle skool next year and don't want to start the year getting picked on. My mom said we might have to move to get a bigger place so he can get his own room . I asked why do I have to change my whole life for him.its not even like he appreciates it what do I do:(

[Alty]

My house is only a two bedroom

Your house? You bought it? You pay the mortgage? Do you pay rent? Anything? If not, guess what, it's not your house. The house belongs to the people that bought it. Also, you're a child, as is the 15 year old son of your stepfather.

Don't like the way they're doing things, wait until you're 18, get a job, get a home of your own, and live your own life.

Until then, their house, their rules, and like it or not, this 15 year old is still a child, and they can't just toss him out because you don't like him.

I sympathize. I realize that you're angry, and you don't like the changes that have been made in your family. But, you can't do anything about their choices. You can only make better choices for yourself.

[indya]

I think you should try and talk to your mom, let her know how you feel. Is there anybody else, any elder or friend to whom you can confide?

There is no point suffering alone. It's best to come out with your feelings and fears and let your mom know. Only then will she understand you.