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Keda143 · Mar 26, 2012, 03:42 PM

I'm 14 y/o I like a guy that's 15 but he said he doesn't date "lil girls" instead he started dating a 18 y/o girl

Alty · Mar 26, 2012, 04:13 PM

That sucks. Sounds like he just wasn't that into you. It happens.

Keda143 · Mar 26, 2012, 04:19 PM

Actually before he said he doesn't date little girls he said that he really wanted to date me and that I was beautiful he really liked me and had a crush on me for a year

Alty · Mar 26, 2012, 04:21 PM

Originally Posted by Keda143

actually before he said he dosent date little girls he said that he really wanted to date me and that i was beautiful he really liked me and had a crush on me for a year

Sounds like he changed his mind.

Keda143 · Mar 26, 2012, 04:26 PM

Well thanks for your opinion :) so what do I do if I'm going to start the same high school he's going to? Especially when his girlfriend is graduating this year? What if he asks me out?

Alty · Mar 26, 2012, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by Keda143

well thanks for your opinion :) so what do i do if im going to start the same highschool hes going to?? especially when his girlfriend is graduating this year?? what if he asks me out??

As long as he's dating this girl, leave him alone. He's taken.

If he breaks up with her and then asks you out then it's up to you to decide if you're still interested in him.

A lot can change when you're 14. One day you love someone, the next day you love someone else. It's unlikely that you'll still be into him when you start high school. But if you are, and he asks you out, decide then. See if you still care about him. But don't wait around for him. Chances are he won't ask you out, even if he breaks up with this other girl. Like I said, teens are pretty fickle when it comes to love.

MsKatieJareau · Mar 29, 2012, 03:30 AM

I suppose he prefers girls who are more experienced. I have nothing against males who like to engage in romantic relations with older women, as long as the women don't abuse them in any way. I understand the appeal. I also wouldn't mind dating a younger male as it would most likely give me a feeling of being the alpha. That would be cool.

Now, as for going to the same school he's going to and his girlfriend is going to graduate. There is nothing you can do about that. Being in the same place doesn't make you any more likely to have a relationship with him if he's still with the older girl. Whatever you do, don't be the third wheel! However, when and if they break up and he shows interest in you and asks you out, see if you're still interested in him and then make a decision from there.

Anyhoo, I really hope you find another boy who is less preferential.