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loverboy69 · Mar 20, 2012, 07:25 PM

I'm 13, I have a beautiful girlfriend. She is just amazing. We have grown apart lately due to the fact we don't go to the same school and her parents don't want us dating. Apparently her mom and my mom were huge enemies in high school. They don't want us talking or anyway. But soon will be our three month anniversary. She loves me and I love her. Even though I am young, I love her. But we have had a lot of fights lately. She gets mad at me because someone made up a lie because most of her friends are jealous of me and her. Most of her friends had stopped being friends with her so they could have a chance with me. I know it sounds stupid but this is actually happening. I want to see her so much. She is in the mood of leaving the country to go to Europe and stay there to get away from all of the problems she is having here. What do I do?

Alty · Mar 20, 2012, 09:00 PM

You leave her alone.

Your parents don't want the two of you dating, and they have the final say, since you're both children.

You obey your parents, break off the relationship with her, which it seems is what she wants. The stress is too much for her right now. Don't add to it.

If you really love each other so much you'll love each other just as much when you're adults and can decide who you want to date without your parents consent.

So let it be for now. If it's meant to be you'll be able to be together again in 5 years. Five years is nothing when you're in love.

Hi love one · Jun 29, 2012, 07:55 PM

I think you guys shouldn't break up because after all you guys make this real. Your relationship aren't a fairytale. I am in the kind of relationship now. My friends dislike my boyfriend now and I don't want to break up with him because we love each other. By this age, parents always think that there are no real/true love in this age but there is. I love him and I am not letting him go. I think you guys shouldn't break up but you should think and not see each other for a little while because right now you guys need to think about if you guys really love each other then after a few week or so you guys should meet up and plan something out or just break up.

Alty · Jun 29, 2012, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by Hi love one

I think you guys shouldn't break up becasue afterall you guys make this real. Your relationship aren't a fairytale. I am in the kind of relationship now. My friends dislike my boyfriend now and i don't want to break up with him because we love each other. By this age, parents always think that there are no real/true love in this age but there is. I love him and i am not letting him go. I think you guys shouldn't break up but you should think and not see each other for a little while because right now you guys need to think about if you guys really love each other then after a few week or so you guys should meet up and plan something out or just break up.

This question requires more than an opinion. There are legal ramifications.

The parents say no, so it's no. They're not of legal age to consent. If they go against their parents rules they could end up in a lot of legal trouble. So, your suggestion is not only bad, but illegal.

dao13 · Jul 7, 2012, 07:55 AM

I have the same situation, what I can tell you is don't listen to these parent pleasers. They clearly want you to suffer, unless you're in freakin' Saudi Arabia or something you don't need your parents permission to be in love. And there is nothing illegal about it.

odinn7 · Jul 7, 2012, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by dao13

I have the exact same situation, what i can tell you is don't listen to these parent pleasers. They clearly want you to suffer, unless you're in freakin' Saudi Arabia or something you don't need your parents permission to be in love. And there is nothing illegal about it.

You know nothing. Being in love isn't illegal but dating at that age without parents consent is.

Alty · Jul 7, 2012, 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by dao13

I have the exact same situation, what i can tell you is don't listen to these parent pleasers. They clearly want you to suffer, unless you're in freakin' Saudi Arabia or something you don't need your parents permission to be in love. And there is nothing illegal about it.

It's not a great idea to give someone advice that's not legal.

We're not "parent pleasers", we're people that give accurate information. If that's not something you're able to do, then don't post.

This child is 13, as a child parental permission is needed in order to date.

mcneely7 · Jul 7, 2012, 02:35 PM

Originally Posted by loverboy69

I'm 13, I have a beautiful girlfriend. She is just amazing. We have grown apart lately due to the fact we don't go to the same school and her parents don't want us dating. Apparently her mom and my mom were huge enemies in high school. They don't want us talking or anyways. But soon will be our three month anniversary. She loves me and I love her. Even though I am young, I love her. But we have had a lot of fights lately. She gets mad at me because someone made up a lie because most of her friends are jealous of me and her. Most of her friends had stopped being friends with her so they could have a chance with me. I know it sounds stupid but this is actually happening. I want to see her so much. She is in the mood of leaving the country to go to Europe and stay there to get away from all of the problems she is having here. What do I do?

First you have to understand the difference between perception and reality. She is not your girlfriend any more. Get a new one. If she can truthfully leave the country just because of an emotional difficulty then yes its sad she's out but if this is how she handles problems let her go. She sounds emotionally dependent on others and their perception of her. Run away... fast

Alty · Jul 7, 2012, 02:37 PM

Originally Posted by mcneely7

first you have to understand the difference between perception and reality. she is not your girlfriend any more. get a new one. if she can truthfully leave the country just because of an emotional difficulty then yes its sad shes out but if this is how she handles problems let her go. she sounds emotionally dependent on others and their perception of her. run away...fast

What? Did you read the thread?

These children are 13, not adults. Neither of their parents want them dating.

What 13 year old isn't emotionally dependent?

Oi!

JudyKayTee · Jul 7, 2012, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by dao13

I have the exact same situation, what i can tell you is don't listen to these parent pleasers. They clearly want you to suffer, unless you're in freakin' Saudi Arabia or something you don't need your parents permission to be in love. And there is nothing illegal about it.

And that's why he's over here, whining - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ml#post3185485