[hannahface]

Me and my boyfriend have never had intercourse (I'm still a virgin), but we do mutually masturbate each other regularly. Normally it is fun for the both of us and virtually worry free. He always fingers me (my pants and panties are pulled up - he puts his hands inside my pants to finger me) first, and after I climax, he pulls down his pants and I give him a hand job. When he does finally ejaculate, he does it NO WHERE near my vagina. In fact, when it happens, I have my pants on, and he always sticks his penis back into his pants to avoid a mess. Like I said, usually it's a no biggie situation, and a situation that is darn near impossible to result in pregnancy. However, the other night, something different went down. I wasn't particularly worried at the time, but as time has passed (about 12 days), I've been having all these thoughts and second guessing things, which has led me to being CONSTANTLY stressed and worried for the past week that I am pregnant.

The last time we did this, he had his hands down my pants and was fingering me as usual... Things were going great. However, I noticed that about 3 times, he took his hands out of my pants and touched his penis, then immediately began to finger me again. At first, I thought that he was touching his penis over his pants... However, after, I realized that his penis was out, and that he was most likely touching his bare penis and then fingering me. I know that he produces pre-***. I guess I'm worried that some pre-*** was transferred from his fingers to my vagina. I'm almost 100% sure that he urinated before all of this happened... And that would have flushed any leftover sperm from his last ejaculation out. So, most likely there wasn't even any sperm at all in his pre-***. At this point, he had not ejaculated at all. And, I don't even know if there was pre-***, but he had an erection, so I'm sure there was.

I've been told that there really isn't too much of a pregnancy risk from what had happened. And that most likely, even though he was fingering me directly after touching his penis, most of the pre-*** would have been wiped on the inside of my pants, therefore making it even less likely that I would have had a risk because sperm are so delicate.

The only problem is I am late for my period. I mean, I'm not super regular. Sometimes it comes a little early, and sometimes it's a little late. But, I'm now on day 34 of my cycle, and I am FREAKING OUT! Literally, all I have been thinking about is this and I am stressed beyond belief. And, I'm not really having any symptoms that would suggest that my period is coming. I have noticed a slightly yellow tinged discharge dried in my panties... And my lower back has been hurting and my nipples look a little darker. But, for all I know, the discharge is just normal, everyday discharge and the lower back pain could be from having a job that requires me to stand up for hours at a time or something equally strenuous on my back. And I think that right now, the stress has made me hyper aware of my body, and that maybe my nipples have been this color all along and I just never noticed.

Anyway... I'm just scared. Do you guys have any advice or something that could ease my mind? Thanks in advance for any help you can offer.

[JudyKayTee]

You have engaged in risky behavior and, yes, you could be pregnant. The chances appear to be slim (Can Pregnancy Occur if&hellip;?: <br> Pregnancy Myths Cleared Up! : American Pregnancy Association) but there is a possibility.

I think you're going to have to wait out your period. I would also find a method of birth control which is acceptable to you and use it. Not "too much of a pregnancy risk" and NO pregnancy risk are two very different things. You need to protect yourself if you don't want a baby at this point in your life.

Stress can cause you question all sorts of things about your body that you never noticed before.

I think the chances are slim and you need to try to relax and wait things out. This is a warning, however, and I'd take the worry out of the relationship as quickly as possible. Mistakes happen. Protect yourself.