[srsh2012]

Intercaste marriages
Hi, I'm in relation with a guy for about 3 years.he stays in a chawl .we had to decided to run and get married for that he took a room in a chawl on rental basis . His parents and my parents to got convinced but my parents are not totally happy with him.as he is from a lower caste,they didn't find him handsome.also because he is short as of my height.he kept on listening to me as I would say.I'm going under the medication of thyroid.due to this problem I get irritated very quickly and as now when my parents tell bad things abut him like as he is not owning a flat or he is not heighted or not good looking I get very irritated and I go and tell him abut this.and he gets irritated with this also he tells me once we'll get married I'll defintely purchase a flat first on rent and then ours.he is earning around 25000. He is very hard working . Apart from this he also does extra work and earns more. He is the whole and sole of the family.he takes care of his whole family. He loves me a lot and I do love him.but as my parents keep on tellimg abut him and also because of the thyroid disorder I get irritated and think the same whereas I know that he is he is going to be successful person in his life.but I too think negative as my parents think my parents have accepted him but not whole heartedely, should I stop listening to my parents.because before I never use to think negative about him. My parents told me that they'll get me married to him in few months but for him he is shelling extra money for the rented room upper floor which he is not using which he took it for me. Now he is telling me to leave him as I keep on torchering him every day. And due to that he can't concenrate on his work.he also told me that I'llwait till you get a partner in you life as uour parents and you want. And once uour married then I 'll think of getting married. I really don't know what to do.

[deidrarivera]

I think that you should not worry about what your arents say if I were you my parents would support me and not do that to me but follow your heart