[hestheone4me247]

My boyfriend and I have never actually had sex. We've had oral sex however, especially last two weeks. Every time we've done that however, he fingers me first, and then I give him head. I never swallow the ***, but pull up his underwear before he does, so his underwear catches it all. By the time that usually happens though, I'm all the way naked. As far as I know, none of the *** has actually gotten on me. Last week, my nipples started feeling tender, and my stomach feels full and looks noticeably bloated. Also, I've been pretty tired, and I got fairly frequent headaches last week as well, however I also have an iron deficiency. I've felt like I've had to go to the bathroom frequently and I feel like I couldn't empty my bladder all the way. Also, I have a white-ish discharge in my underpants, but I've always had this, and it's apparently "normal."

On another note, I am on the pill, and I take it everyday at 9:30 in the morning. I'm pretty religious about it. That being said, I'm supposed to start my period this Monday/Tuesday. How likely is the chance that I am pregnant? Is there a chance I have a bladder infection instead? Am I just gaining weight in general?

[J_9]

hestheone4me247, do you know how pregnancy actually happens? He has to insert his penis into you for you to become pregnant. Most likely you are just experiencing premenstrual symptoms.

[hestheone4me247]

I'm very well aware of how pregnancy occurs, I'm just concerned because I've heard it can happen if you get it on your hands or something accidentally and go to the bathroom. I'm just worried. I just wanted to make sure that the sperm actually dies once it come in contact with the air.

[Fr_Chuck]

Sorry, it does not sound like you know how it happens. You put it back in his pants before he gets off giving him oral, you can swallow all day, that is not how it happens. And sorry it sounds like he is not getting the best if you are not completely finishing him at least by hand.

And his fingering you before he gets off does not do it either.

I have to agree, the way it is written it sounds like you need to study and learn more about sex before doing it.