[diazbrandy2012]

Ok so this is weird but I was with a guy for seven years all through high school and we got married and divorced after three years but now we are dating again. I love him a whole bunch even though I didn't show it like I should have in the past I left him for other men a lot and I know that is a issue between us but I have really done some soul searching and I want to be with him only. I have told him everything and let him know how I feel but he is still pushing me away by his actions. He tells me he wants to be with me but I have to ask him to go out with me and he brings me to dinner once a year and righ back home. He goes out with his friends without me which has never happened before and expects me not to get my feelings hurt. I don't know if he is only with me because he thinks if he isn't I am not going to let him see his son as often and that is not true I would never do that or if he just is still afraid it might happen again. He barley talks to me and when he does he puts me down and I'm not sure how much longer I can take that emotional abuse. I love him so much what should I do

[autumn19]

Tell him how you feel, show him that he is the only one you want and make him laugh. When my boyfriend and I get into it we always make it up to each other by making the mad one laugh. Also let him search your cell and email and Facebook when ever he wants to show him your not talking to anyone else. Good luck sorry I wasn't much help but so far I'm the only help lol

[odinn7]

You left him lots of times for other men... you were married and divorced... I'm guessing he is tired of you and maybe scared that you will do the same thing to him again. It sounds like he is definitely not interested in dating you any more.

[SophieM]

Complicated... I think you should have a serious talk with him and tell him how you really feels about all these years with and without him. What you have learnt from your past mistakes and that you wnt repeat same again. Communication is a great asset and use this to finally take a decision. I guess he's confused and insecure and does not want to go through same pain as u left him years before. All can be solved by talking and if you try to conquer his heart back. If he doesn't accept, respect his decision. All the best.

[diazbrandy2012]

I understand all of your answers and I respect them all. I have tried talking to him and told him to look through all my stuff. Our other major problem is he is afraid to make his step dad mad so he does whaat his step dad wants all the time. He never spends time with me or anything because he gripes and gets mad I just don't understand what to do about that I just feel like if he loves me like he says he wouldn't care about who he makes madd as long as he is workn on something he wants and if its not what he want he should tell me right?