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    Feb 17, 2012, 09:54 AM
    How do I get him to trust me again?
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and I've never given him a reason not to trust me before and he agrees with me on that. But we decided to take it a step further and have sex. He asked me not to tell anyone because he wanted to tell my brother before anyone else. I understood that completely but I told my friend and trusted her not to tell anyone but she did. So everyone knows now and he and I are not talking right now. I miss him but I don't know how to get him to trust me again. He blames me for telling her in the first place and if I blame myself can it ever be fixed between us? Please help!
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    Feb 17, 2012, 11:34 AM
    You both sound really immature, maybe it wasn't time to have sex, or to be with someone else for that matter. However, if you want to pusue him, just let him cool off, he can't be mad about this forever, unless he is a drama queen, in that case you may not want him around.
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    Feb 17, 2012, 12:15 PM
    How old are you guys?
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    Feb 17, 2012, 12:58 PM
    Seriously how old are you two?

    Just let him act like a kid don't go chasing him and don't talk to him and that means even if he contacts you don't respond straight away just wait a day or 2 make it seem like you don't need him. He will start chasing you if he is that bothered about you. You shouldn't have to prove that your trust worthy to him, he should trust you anyway no matter what has happened.

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