[tara13]

Hi I'm 21yrs old grl & iwant 2marry my boyfriend who is 24yrs old & v are both in relations since 5yrs my boyfriend belong to obc caste & ibelong 2general caste my parents don't agreeing for are marriage bt his parents are saying if u want 2marry uour grlfrd den tell her parents 2talk 2dem bt my parents wants that icompleted my edu & do my masters den dey vl see & my boyfriend don't earn 2much he earnd just 15000/- dey says this 2me & my boyfriend dad is bypass patient 2 & in dere society below his age are boys r get married so his parents are forcing eithr u tell what uour grlfrd parents wants or marry whr v tell & my parents wants 1st I complete my edu & dey vl also nt serious 2 he thinks that what shld I do please gv me advice hw 2convince my & his parents so that both r parents shld gt convinced & waites at least for 1yr...

[JudyKayTee]

The only thing anyone can possibly suggest is that you continue to discuss the situation with your parents - it is very difficult for people who are not involved with the "caste system" to understand it.