[Lee_Li]

He is a businessman 15 years older than me, we met online, he saw my pic and started to talk with me, at first I didn't know his age. I just saw his age from his profile, it showed him only 8 years older than me. By the way, we are in different countries.

Last months he came here to see me (10 hours from his country ), transferred another plane, totally takes 13 hours. I was moved by him, but when I saw him, I felt very happy except a little bit disappointed, he looks much older than I thought.

He treated me well, and we celebrated New Year.1 week ago, he came here for seeing me, and we stayed together for 7 days, wandered a lot of places. I did feel very warm and safe when we were together. Moreover, he told me that he is a businessman, he wants to develop business here in my country. I started to consider whether it is true of his words, those thousands times of love. We've only known each other for 3 months. Hmm He referred that he need to set up business here then we get married at the end of year. He always ask my thoughts but he never told me his .

He is a person very quiet, and sometimes he asked me about the future and what I want,I told him something such as I need a family, and stable job, and 2 kids ,perhaps I am not that ambitious, but that's all I want. Anyway I don't want to be taken advantage of by anyone. I am not sure I should continue this relationship.

Firstly is his age, by the way he has divorced before, but without child.
Secondly is different culture, countries, so is it worth it to take hands with?

Thank you .

[JudyKayTee]

Only you know your heart - do I think it's too soon? Yes. Do I think you love him? No. You don't even know him.

Have you verified anything he's told you - his age, his marital status, whether he has children?

Was this an international dating/marriage site?

[Lee_Li]

Thank you .and I definitely don't know him a lot .we met on international dating website online ,but I had seen his passport and some stuff related .I prefer to trusting him ,I told a lot to mom ,they are not satisfied with him ,but I felt that I do have fancies on him .is that because a habit ?or I had expected a lot about our future... hope everything goes well ,and he tell me the truth about himself...

[talaniman]

What's the hurry, if you are not sure then don't do it. And why not get a LOT more facts before you marry an on line stranger. Take a year, or two!