[PandabearsRock]

My friend well I don't know called me shady for talking to other friends... What should I do, I don't think she want to be friends with me.. What I need help!

[DoulaLC]

Hi PandabearsRock,

Does she not like it when you talk to other friends? Is this the first time she has said anything to you?

Do you know if she has concerns about these other friends... such as they may be the type to get in trouble? If so, maybe she is worried that you will make some poor choices along with them.

If they are good kids, maybe she is just concerned that you will want to spend more time with them than with her. If you think that might be the reason, you can try to reassure her that you are able to spend plenty of time with her and still be friends with others too. Some people have a hard time sharing their friends because they think they will start to like someone else more.

If this seems to have been a problem for awhile, and talking to her doesn't seem to change things, it might be time to start spending more time with some of your other friends. If you decide to do that, you can always let her know your reasons.

[ttaayylloorr18]

Obviously if your friend is calling you shady for talking to other friends she's not a very good friend. Who cares what she thinks? Drop her and anyone else who talks crap. You don't need that.