[salmamukri]

As salaam ailaikum... my husband married me but he lie to me that this is his first marriage but he was already married with 2 kids and now when I came to know he says that he will leave the first wife and the kids,I don't know what to do is it right or not but he is not earning good and he have to give lottss of money to other people its been more then a year of my marriage but till now he cannot fulfill my requirement and he never ever send money to his first wife in fact he don't have money I try to make him understand about the resposibility but he is the same person he always lie to me and he keeps realation chatting with other women and I have seen the chatting conversation he chat all bad and sexuall language,please help me what should I do now . Should stay with him or not but one thing I want to say that he loves me a lott and he says that he will leave the first wife , please suggest me something please

[afaroo]

If he is chatting with other women and you have heard the chatting conversation and he use bad sexual language and also he is dishonest to is other wife and kids then he lies to you too he doesn’t not love you, Thanks.

John

[salmamukri]

Hey thanks for replying me well I told him that you can leave me and go to your first wife but he said he don't want to leave me and from last 3 month he said I am changed and I do not have any chatting friends now and I don't even talk to my first wife now what dear??

[afaroo]

Will it sounds good so please give him a chance and watch if he really changes if he does than that is a good news for you and start a new life with him, in Islam divorce is not a good thing, Good luck and wish you all the best Allah is great, Thanks.

John