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NILCOOLR · Jan 19, 2012, 10:29 PM

She broke up with me 1 months ago. Problem is that I became possessive and she can't bear mental pressure, so she broke up. I told her I am sorry, please give me a chance she told me, leave me alone. I told her please at least meet me on 14th of January. She told I am very busy I am not sure. I send her a regular one sms just good morning. Suddenly I stopped contacting her, but she contact me, and said how are you what are you doing on the 15th as because its my birthday. I invite her on my birthday, but she told me why you not contact me on 14th? I told her, I have told you three times, you said to me you are not coming that's why I haven't asked you further. Even I asked what do you want? Please tell me do you give me time? She said I didn't know at that moment please leave that question.

I am little confused about her as because whenever I go any places with some other girls she thought that I don't like her anymore and I moved on (as said to her friend personally). We have little bit hi, hello, on Facebook regularly, sometimes she said I need alone time, sometime she initiated connect and sometime neglect. What is the possible way to get her.. right now.

I initiated contact on Facebook, she replied in one word or two words, I just compliment her, and say good night everyday.

talaniman · Jan 20, 2012, 02:26 PM

She either has put you in the friend zone, or wants to see how much you will fight for her, or how you will fight.

Since the worry is that you will move on without her, and she may be jealous of you spending time with other girls, and no doubt you don't want her with other guys, so I would say, improve your behavior, don't be so possessive, and cut the other girl loose. She may be playing hard to get also, as she can't just cave to your wishes. Or give you what you want to quickly.

Knowing all this, I would go all the way back to when you were the nice guy who was fun to be with, that she enjoyed spending time with, and not the possessive boob who was ignoring her wishes and takes her for granted.

I don't know if it will work or not guy, but it has to be better than what you are doing now. At least you will find out rather quickly if she wants you back, or NOT!!

geminichick · Jan 21, 2012, 06:12 AM

You should really try not to be so possessive. Really, a lot of women do not like men to be possessive of them. They like their freedom. Give her some space. If she does come back to you, realize she is not your property and you do not own her.

jessica_haf · Feb 7, 2012, 08:24 AM

I'm a girl too and I thought if I were she how could I think and why I could do this way ! I just found a reason ! =) she still loves you but her heart is broken and she want to know how much you love her ! If you want to know what I'm thinkin' , I just say this === go and say her what you feel ! What is coming from your heart ! Go and say her !

NILCOOLR · Feb 13, 2012, 03:02 AM

She dumped me 2 months ago. Now problem is that recently she admitted that she in relationship. I said why you do this to me?

She said, "when I was in a breakup was very angry I felt attracted to somebody and I said him love you but afterwards realize it was my fault I lost very precious thing that was you"... so I I was very pissed off with her and stop contact her. She try to send me some blank sms but I haven't answered. Then afterwards 5 days later she mailed me that she doesn't do this intentionally it was infatuation I really miss you a lot. Do you really love me or hate me?

I said I forgive you then she said good to she you happy. Then I said are you happy? She said "I will be happy some days later it require sometime" miss you. Then I said do you really love me, and she said I have created such situation it was not possible for her to take me back.

Then I called her and meet her the next day. She said very little chance we will be back in a relationship, because we regularly meet him in college. Then I said I love you she said love you too. Please don't contact me I will try and I contact you take it as negative. But that night we have a conversation. She changed again. She said again very little chance and maybe I will not talk with you whenever my new boyfriend is online.

I was pissed off really think about that behavioral that she is playing. Next day I said I was not well. I try to talk with you. I called her and I said was very stress I am asking about her initiative for our relationship she said its depends upon situation. She called me that afternoon and said how is your health and she said I called you to known your health status. I asked her give me a kiss. She gave and then told be happy always just don't know whether or when I will call you further... be happy..

I felt very devastating she was always in my mind I don't know whether she is playing or not... if she contact me further on talk what should I do? Just make or feel happy or flirt or give emotional talk or showed her that I was moved on and very happy or should I never contact her.

talaniman · Feb 13, 2012, 06:20 PM

Sorry guy, but since the break up she has found better things to do and is now string you along as a back up. Now that you know this don't sit like a fool waiting for her to give you a chance. Go out and have your fun, and never call her again. She thinks you are okay in the friend zone, and calls you to keep you on her hook, when she has time.

Sorry guy, her love is not true, but it keeps you there like a puppy.