[musa23]

I don't know, but I think I'm still in love with my ex. We broke up almost 7 months ago. The reason we did is because we got in a fight. I always blame myself for the break up, because if my pride wouldn't have got in the way, maybe he would still be here. Me and him lived together, and he talked about us being together forever, and stuff.

And after the break up, me and him still kept in touch through Facebook. It even seemed we were going to get back together, because we talked on the phone still, and we talked about hanging out soon, and a lot of things, but he one day he asked out my friend, and that was it. I was done with him. I deleted him on Facebook we cussed each other out, and that was it. We stopped talking, but recently he added me on Facebook again, and we started talking again on Facebook.

And since then, he has me all confused, and when we do talk on Facebook, I get the biggest smile even when I don't want to. I do have a new boyfriend that is the best. He tries so hard to keep me happy, and he gives so much for me, and I really try my best to be a girlfriend, but that's kind of hard to do when I think about him. And all I do is think about him, and wonder if he ever thinks of me. I know I should move on, because it would be the best think to do. But I just can't. All I do is think about him and want to be with him. When I kiss my boyfriend, I sometimes think I'm kissing him.

Its been so long since we broke up, 7 months, but he still in my heart, and no matter what I do, I can't move on from him. Its just the hardest thing I have to do, but I sometimes think if we talked things through maybe we would end up together again, but I'm just so scared of him telling me he moved on, and that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I don't know what to do because I love the guy but I don't know if he does. Any advice here would really help!

[talaniman]

I highly suggest you stop CHEATING on the new guy with your ex on Facebook. I bet if you stop all contact with the ex, you would stop this foolish rollercoaster of old feelings being stirred up every time you do.

Its simply not fair to you or your new boyfriend to be in contact with your ex. At least be honest with the new guy so he can decide if its worth being a good guy to a female that sneaks behind his back, and keeps in touch with an ex, and wants him back.

That would be fair! And you will never get over, or move on from some one you still chase, and hope for. Yes that IS cheating, and WRONG! So stop doing it, why don't cha?

Trust me, you will feel much better doing the right thing for yourself, the new guy, and the ex.