[Swagnificent]

Okay. I met this guy. He means the world to me. When I see him I get millions of butterflies taking off, but one thing for sure is he doesn't communicate with me. When I see him, there is just a hi. I want to talk to him. But it seems that he doesn't.

I know he's shy. Sometimes I can be too, but THIS shy? I like him a lot. He likes me a lot too. But today, out of nowhere, "I think it's best for us to stay best friends, to avoid any awkward moment." But won't doing this make it more awkward?

Anyway, I'm kind of fine now, but the love is still lingering in me. I love him more than you know. Why can't he see that? What should I do? HELP?

[talaniman]

Sorry but his feelings are just not the same as yours and he doesn't want what YOU want. It happens sometimes with intense feeling for some one is not matched by them.

Those feelings will linger for a while, but they will fade if you accept he doesn't share your feelings, and turn you attention to other things. Takes some time is all but its not easy going through that disappointment.

[Ice_Princess]

If you don't communicate how do you really know each other? Are you sure you're in love with him, or the ideas you have? As for him, no matter how shy he is, for him to say he likes you a lot and then never initiate anything IS stringing you along. It's not fair or kind of him to do that to you while he gets an ego boost by knowing you like him.

[bootnelroy]

Is he married?