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Jan 12, 2012, 12:32 AM
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Help, Very stuck between friendship and parents/law
Ok so I have a friend who has a different orientation then some people, the thing is there parents do not approve and they come at my place to let their feelings out and be with each other, I am scared because their parents have already said the police will be contacted if they find out there together because one is 19 the other is 17. Please I need advice, I feel stuck in the middle of things...
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Jan 12, 2012, 09:03 AM
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It would be nice if you would actually say or ask a real complete question.
So they have a relationship different from most people? They like to go out killing cats at night ?
Ok can I assume perhaps they are gay or lesbian.
Next where is this at, in some places it is legal, in others it is against the law. So where is this at, and what is exactly the relationship.
Also if in the US what states. While if G/L they can date, having sex is different.
Next if the minor does not have permission of their parent to date someone, yes it is possible to have charges pressed for various things So the 17 will just have to obey their parents.
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Jan 12, 2012, 09:08 AM
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Ok, I am in the bronx right now. And yes they are gay I am just new to this site and don't know how good it goes. My 17yr old friends mom is very upset with me because she found out I knew they have been dating and did'nt say anything it's a big mess. By the way I didn't know if you were being rude or not so I am going to assume you weren't. Like I said I am new here.
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Jan 12, 2012, 02:36 PM
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Stop allowing these two to get you in the middle of their mess, because the 17 year old is a minor, and clearly the parents don't approve so you have to draw a line to keep yourself out of the troubles they cause themselves.
They are using you to get around the wishes of the parents so you better distance yourself and stop being such a willing friend that helps them break the rules.
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Jan 12, 2012, 07:56 PM
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Yes I suppose your right, I just didn't want to feel like a bad friend.
Thanks
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Jan 12, 2012, 08:22 PM
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No I was trying to make a joke, I thought I knew, but then did not know your age and to you a different type of relationship may have been actually kissing when others your age just hold hands, We get 10 year olds that post, and so on.
But yes, unless you are one of the people, you don't get in the middle, explain you will not lie for them and stay out of it.
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