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tawny812 · Jan 9, 2012, 06:53 PM

Ok I have a friend, she is like my sister I have known her forever and she has always helped me when no one else would. She has never done anything to hurt me. Well I have a huge crush on a guy, we were best friends for like 3 years then we started dating but we got into an argument and broke up, we stayed friends. I know he still likes me and I know he knows I like him. One day I found out him and my best friend were dating...

All three of us hang out all the time and he always told me he loved her.. I tried to be happy for them but it made me feel betrayed because she knew I REALLY liked him.She dumped him and then he asked me out again, I said yes, but I felt bad cause I don't know if she really liked him. We dated for like three months then I got a text from his brother saying his ex (my best friend) told him she still likes him. So the next day he broke up with me and started asking her out again, but she denies him.

I feel like she is using him. I try to get over him but for some reason I just can't. He has apologized to me like four times for breaking up for me. (but he isn't asking me out again) He is like my best friend even when me and him were not dating he would do anything to help me, I don't want to lose either one of them but I don't know what to do. I can't stand seeing him begging for her to go out with him everyday and I can't stand seeing her do that to him or me (playing with his emotions and mine).

But I don't want to lose them.

Jackets67 · Jan 9, 2012, 11:32 PM

I think that your friend is rejecting him because she understands your feelings for him and she wants you to be happy, even if it makes her sad. All I can really say is talk to her about it without him around and find out why she keeps rejecting him. If she is doing it for you then you have a couple of choices you can either tell her it's OK and they can go out and you be sad, or you thank her and try to get back together with him. If it's not like that then I don't know what to say. Hope I helped.

talaniman · Jan 10, 2012, 06:32 PM

Its not her fault he keeps going back for more, nor is it her fault you are stuck on this guy, but he isn't stuck on you.

Just stay out of their business, and do your thing until they resolve their issues, and you have moved on from your crush on this friend. Widen your circle of friends for a while.