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bignick22 · Jan 9, 2012, 02:15 PM

All right so a couple nights ago my girlfriend and I had plans to hang out, nothing formal. About 2 hours before I was going to leave for her house she said she had made plans with her friend Kim and she was going to sleep over and it might be awkward if all three of us were there. I was a little annoyed, but it was no big deal. Later that night, she told me that her and Kim went to the movies with a big group of people, and I was pretty upset, I understand if she wants to hang out with her friend, but why couldn't she bring me along if it was a big group? I was pretty upset, but I got over it. THEN I found out in addition to having Kim sleep over their guy friend also slept over and I was completely outraged. She ditched me on the pretense it would be awkward with all three of us, then hung out with a group of people AND had a guy sleep over. I was furious and when I asked her she said she didn't invite me because her friends (who I've never met) told her they didn't want me to come. Eventually we got tired of fighting and got over it. Then, less than a week later, I was planning on going to her soccer game (one of the few, if not the only, opportunities I had to see her play) and two days before the game she told me I shouldn't come because her friends were going to be there.
Let me explain something's, I'm not at all nervous she's cheating on me, and although I was upset she had a guy sleep over just because of the principal of it I was mainly upset because she had ditched me.
Am I completely ridiculous for getting mad?
I'm not really sure what to do, I'm sick of being bailed on and I feel like she's embarrassed of me. I want her to have friends, but its not OK for her to bail on our plans to go hang out with them, is it?

ddmayo5 · Jul 8, 2012, 06:46 PM

Dude I'm in the same in boat, and no you're not wrong. That's all I have to say. Es will say they love you, then with your mind and heart. The heart always hurts the worst, but as a man you either have to deal with it or move the on. I am currently just dealing with it, I don't know what you want to do though.

Messedupbabe · Jul 13, 2012, 01:01 PM

If I did that to my boyfriend, hed be furious. Honestly, I wouldn't take that. Im a girl, but I would never have the heart to do that. If I were you, id rethink your situation. The only reason she wouldn't want you there is a. She's getting a rebound. b. she's talking . Why else wouldn't her friends like you. Just saying...