[erickpalmer80]

I'm a guy and I always have lots of friends. But this always happen that my guys friends even married ones. They always have the tenancy in approaching me in sexual way.Well discrete for them. I use to go to gym n had my six pack, now I even got over weight so I don't hv to appeal to a lot of guys. They know I go out wt girls and still in one way or another don't know what to do.

[Cat1864]

My first thought is a question for you to ask yourself: Are you perhaps misreading or misunderstanding what your 'friends' are saying/asking? Could you be seeing sexual intent where there isn't any?

It may be that you need to look at how you interact with them. Make certain you aren't giving them mixed signals by being too affectionate and touching.

If they are propositioning you, all you can do is what you would do if it were a female approaching you when you are in a committed relationship. Politely but firmly decline their offers. If it continues, distance yourself from them.

[Fr_Chuck]

I would agree, I believe it is in the way that you look at things. Perhaps you have desires for men and try to find something sexual in normal behavior.

No all friends and men you know would not all be doing this, esp the married men.