[tazeen]

I have been married for two yrs.my husband wants me to work,but I am not getting a job.he tells me he will live me if I don't get a job?what should I do.I am very sad.can anyone help me?

[valinors_sorrow]

Sounds like you need to take him seriously and either get a job or plan on your marriage ending. Do you believe you have legitimate reasons for not earning a living? What are you occupying your time with and why doesn't he see that as appropriate? What were the expectations you both had concerning this before you married? Without much detail its difficult to say anything more and I hope you can appreciate that.

[tazeen]

Thanku,I have a part time job but that's less,he wants me to do ajob of more pay.I am trying but not finding one.

[tazeen]

He didn't tell me I have to do a job?

[buggage]

If you find a job that is full time and pays more, will you take it willingly? And what is his reasoning for wanting you to get a better job? Are your finances in trouble? What causes him to be so passionate about you needing to get a better paying job, that he would even threaten leaving you if you don't get a better one?

[talaniman]

You must not have any children, so my question is who keeps the money and will you have any say in the finances? Just some things to know before hand. Why do I suspect you too have not discussed how your life is to be and defined the roles you will play in making a life? Pleas correct me if I'm wrong but you really haven't given us enough info to get a clear picture.