[ellis123]

I left my wife for a married woman. We been together for 1 year now. Her husband knows about me. He came to her car and told me you're the man that has my wife's heart, and you can have her, and told me you have a good woman.

We are together ever weekend, and some days in the week. We always talk on the phone with each other ever day. She tells she don't have sex with her husband. They don't sleep in the same room, they are never home together. He works at night, she work in day time. She is 54 years old, I'm 46 years old.

I really love her and I know she really loves me. Can someone help me with this please? Thanks.

[smoothy]

Stop messing around with someone else's wife before they beat you into next week.

If someone even tried to mess with my wife... I'd rip his balls out by the roots and feed them to him.

There are plenty of divorced, single or widowed women out there. Stop messing around with someone that's married.

If it was as bad as you say... they would be separated or divorced, and they aren't.

[ellis123]

Well she tell me she don't love him I no that she never with him and here husband are with some othere woman
She want leve him but they have a house to get there that she haven't

[chels_polamalu]

Oh shut up. U never ever mess with a married woman, and same for women, they should never ever mess with married men. All u people who cheat areHOME WRECKERS. If she really was soooooo sad and miserable she would have left her husband. Ur pathetic and so is she... damn sluts.

[Fr_Chuck]

You don't see or talk to her, till she leaves her husband, she is just making excuses. She leaves his bed to come to yours.

She is using you, if she really loved you, she would leave her husband for you.

[smoothy]

Ellis... you are 46, its about time you act it... you are acting like a fool and she is treating you like one. Just open your eyes and you could see.

If she does this with you, she's done it with others... and she will do it again with someone else. And you are even worse because you know she's married.

[Cat1864]

You left your wife for this woman. Is your divorce final? If not, get your life in order and on track. Stop spending energy on someone who seems content to stay in a marriage of convenience for whatever her reasoning. More than likely you aren't her first playmate anymore than her husband's current playmate is his. If this is how they want their marriage, this is the way it will stay until either of them gets tired or dies.

Stop living in her messed up world. You have already allowed it to do damage to your own. Build up a life without her and take care of healing from your own marriage breaking up. Take responsibility for your life and clean it up. Are you really content and happy when you think of the lives you are damaging?

You haven't mentioned children. Are there any who are learning very bad lessons about relationships from watching and being affected by the supposed adults in their lives?