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    kamandoking Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 5, 2012, 08:05 AM
    How can we convince our parents for our love life?
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    I'm a nair boy from kerala... I love a girl who is a friend of ma friend... we love each other... We can't live without each other... I m 23years age and she is 22years... from her parents side it's a green signal... but unfortunately as she is frm other cast ma parents don't like her... I tried so many ways and tyms to convince them for our relation... I have no idea nw what to do... can anyone help me in sugestng me how can I convince ma parents?
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    Jan 5, 2012, 08:16 AM
    There may be no way, are you willing to marry her against your parents wishes?

    If you can not "live" without each other and claim you truly love her, you would give up the relationship with your parents for her.

    Sometimes love is a hard choice
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    Jan 5, 2012, 08:35 AM
    I can't go against ma parents... and I can't leave her too...
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    Jan 17, 2012, 09:00 AM
    Casteism is the biggest evil in india, talk to your parents and try to make them see reason, most parents would agree on a fat dowry, especially if they are old school. If not just talk to them and tell them it will not be possible for you to leave this girl because you love her so much, tell them that you may have to break away from the family and get married with her if they do not agree, this veiled threat will surely get them thinking, I am not saying you have to leave your parents, but just giving them this veiled threat should work wonders, all the best!

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