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    Jan 4, 2012, 12:12 PM
    My boyfriend is talking to his ex (again). I'm paranoid.
    My boyfriend has cheated on me with his ex girlfriend before, I forgave and took him back. 4 months later they start talking and as day's go by they keep getting closer and closer, I confronted him about it and say's that's his business and I shouldn't worry about it. Every time he gets a call, or text, he flip's his phone all the way to the other side, so I won't see. This is really bothering me and I'm scared to get cheated on again.

    My boyfriend an I been together for over a year now. He's cheated on me with his ex before and after a few weeks I forgave him and took him back. After everything I gave him permission to keep talking to her as friend's but to let me know what's going on with them.

    He's been over her house a couple time's without telling me and when I ask him why he went he says because he needed money and she was going to let him borrow some.

    Should I trust him? He's lied to me a lot before so I don't know what to do. I'm scared he will cheat on me again. Is this relationship even worth fighting for?
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    Jan 4, 2012, 03:12 PM
    You are asking if you should trust a lying cheater who is still seeing his ex, WITH your permission of course, and as a friend, of course.

    Hell NO! Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME! If you lose this lying cheater, you gain a lot of freedom, and peace of mind. So its not worth staying with him at all.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 03:41 PM
    Omg your right. What the hell am I thinking? I must be out of my mind. Thank you this really helped, I don't know how I would even ask that. I guess it's true when they say "love is blind" but then again obviously he doesn't love me if he keep's on talking to her.
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    Jan 4, 2012, 03:52 PM
    Obviously!!

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