[countrygirl1296]

Will someone please help me? I used to date this guy. He is a senior in high school. We dated over the summer non stop, we were glued to each other. Then we got in a huge argument and quit talking over anger. Well eventually school came around and I found out he was dating a girl I knew which was clearly no good for him. She had a very bad name around our part of town. Well we eventually started talking as friends again, and he ended up dumping her about 4 months down the road.

He then proceeded to talk to me and we got very intimate for about a month. Then one day he, out of no where, texts me to tell me that we are not the same as we used to be, and that my past boyfriend has changed me while we were apart. I strongly disagreed and I told him that his past girlfriend has tremendously changed him because I have been the same person since we were together.

Well he leaves me and says he just isn't ready for a girlfriend yet but he loves me. Turns out he is back with the girl he left me for in the beginning but he text me about three days ago. A week after him and his old girl got together and tells me that he misses me and he thinks he has made a mistake. That he was just confused and just doesn't want to hurt me for the second time.

I'm stuck here in a bad situation, and no matter what he does to me I still love him. Completely crazy huh? Well he says that he wants me not her, and he will for sure decide tonight what he wants. What do you think I should do? Please thanks for taking the time to read and answer my important question!:)

[talaniman]

Sorry, not to be harsh, I know it's a rough decision to make, but I think its foolish to let a guy treat you like a throw away piece of meat, and even accept him at all while he bounces from one girl to another like its nothing.

Don't even be that gullible, love or not, as he isn't confused, he is a dog and a smooth one. Have nothing to do with him.

Crazy is a good way to put this, but you don't have to give in to the crazy you know. Used would be the better word.

[countrygirl1296]

Yeah I understand thanks... Idk I just can't help myself because I care for him so much and he says the reason he did that was because he was just so confused. He is now supposely done with her and is try to get with me. I just told him that he would have to prove to me that he really loved me before I went any further.

[amicon]

You're only stuck in a bad situation as long as you allow yourself to be.

Come on,this guy is playing you and a number of other girls.

Don't be part of his little harem any longer-time to tell him to take a hike.