[only.mm1]

I had a gathering... and drinking was going on... At the end of the night... my best friend's fiancé kissed me. My best friend had already left the party but he stayed behind for some reason... and as I was giving him his blanket to sleep, he snuck in a quick kiss. They are getting married soon, I am so confused if I should tell her or not. On top of that, he is really close friends with my husband. I don't want to cause any problems, I'm thinking it was just the alcohol and he didn't realize what he was doing. I'm just thinking of backing the hell away from him, and avoid everything all together, any suggestions.

[JudyKayTee]

If he had kissed me he'd still be trying to get up from the floor.

At any rate - she probably won't believe you so I wouldn't bother telling her. Yes, I'd tell my husband. My husband would listen and let me handle it.

I'd also pull "him" aside and tell him he was out of line and next time he's inappropriate you intend to scream at the top of your lungs.

I'd also serve less alcohol at the next party.

[vanheart]

Me either. I wouldn't tell her. Your loyalty is to your friend.

"he stayed behind for some reason....and as I was giving him his blanket to sleep"

I would leave it it that. Don't let it happen again.

This is a good lesson. Who to tuck in.

[talaniman]

I like your plan, and a word to the drunk when he is sober to inform him his behavior is unacceptable should be sufficient.

[only.mm1]

Thanks for all your comments...