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theo7 · Dec 26, 2011, 09:35 AM

Hello I'm 17 and I'm a guy .I think I have a problem.
I think my penis haven't grown enough.It is actually 11,5 cm when erect and 7cm when flaccid and its girth seems to me normal .I also think that I have PE since when I masturbate quickly I ejaculate within 2-3 minutes and when I masturbate slowly I ejaculoate within 9-12 minutes.I'm worried because the I am below the average values for such things and because my friends with who I talk a lot about these things they say that they are bigger than me and that the normal size is 15-16 cm.Am I OK ?What is going on with me?

JudyKayTee · Dec 26, 2011, 10:02 AM

You need to speak with a Doctor about your concerns.

The size of your penis has no connection with your sexuality. Why do you think it does?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 26, 2011, 10:06 AM

Size means nothing, At 17 most guys know this, you are the size you are, some are larger, some are smaller. Most guys lie about how big they are.

theo7 · Dec 27, 2011, 02:03 AM

Well because I have heard that size does matter in a relationship which includes sexual intercourse and
I have searched the web and found that most girls-women would like a big penis and I really want to pleasure any of my future girldfriends.Even though I haven't been in a relationship yet Im worried all the time about those things.Im also worried about the whole idea of being in a relationship.I mean OK of course
I would like to be in one though I don't know how to act when being one .(I just mentioned those because
They may be the reasons Im worried).Also I don't think I can go and talk to a doctor about those things,
I mean sex and stuff(Im kind of shy) and my parents are not the right people I can talk to about those things.

Kahani Punjab · Dec 27, 2011, 02:58 AM

Theo 7,

Firstly welcome to this great site!

All you heard about the size of the sexual organ is wrong, myth and misconception, concevied by and large by so-called sex-specialists, who are actually novices, or cheats under the garb of medicos. Still, if you have any such concerns, you can consult a doctor. Remember, the size of your penis has no connection with your sexuality. Adults often lie about the size of their organs. As a girl, I shall have nothing to do with the size, but when the penis swells out of excitement, it excites me. Lols! But, it's a fact!

JudyKayTee · Dec 27, 2011, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by theo7

Well because I have heard that size does matter in a relationship which includes sexual intercourse and
I have searched the web and found that most girls-women would like a big penis and I really want to pleasure any of my future girldfriends.Even though I haven't been in a relationship yet Im worried all the time about those things.Im also worried about the whole idea of being in a relationship.I mean ok ofcourse
I would like to be in one though I dont know how to act when being one .(I just mentioned those because
they may be the reasons why Im worried).Also I dont think I can go and talk to a doctor about those things,
I mean sex and stuff(Im kind of shy) and my parents are not the right people I can talk to about those things.

My opinion? When porno is involved, the larger the better - maybe a larger penis photographs better. I don't know. When I watch a movie and the man is oversized I flinch. As a female accommodating a very large partner can hurt!

As far as how to act in a relationship - I would act natural. Women aren't foreigners. We're just a different sex. Talk to a woman in much the same manner as you'd talk to another man.

And if you meet a special person, you are both ready for a physical relationship, you care about each other (and it's not just random sex) your size will not matter to her.