[ruffian]

I know I should just ask him, but I wonder if I imagined it all along. Can you help me out with a few clues about men? One year ago he kissed me, but I pulled away. I was scared, but I truly was already in love with him. He felt confident and said we would end up together. One of his crazy friends mentioned that he admitted being in love with me. After a few weeks, I slept with him. Then, his behavior changed. We began sleeping together a few times a month. I was relegated from the girl of his dreams to a friend with benefits. We continued not dating for almost a year. His texts became less frequent. He announced that he loved me only four times during these twelve months but only passionately in bed. He has lost his job and started drinking and flirting with other women. I started dating another man just as friends since my lover cannot afford to take me out. Did he ever love me? I loved him but I never told him. Every time I see a falling star I wish for his love. Simply.

[talaniman]

Nice and romantic, in reality he took what you had and moved on.

Sorry, but sex/lust, doesn't equal love. You satisfied his lust, but he didn't return your love.

Don't give away your sex until they do more than just say they love you. And if they did love you, they wouldn't have to have the sex until you were sure.

[katieangel13]

Since you have never told him I think that's why he's with other girls. Maybe tell him how you feel if u want him back? And I think he did love you and still might. He wouldn't spend all that time with you if there was no chemistry, attraction, and love between you too.