[jahrespect]

My ex Broke up with me to start a relationship with this lady. It is been now 2 month since we broke up but every now and then I have very nice conversation with my Ex. She is even proposing that we spend the New year's ever together. Does that show a sign that she will ever come back or should I just forget about her and move ON?

My Next Question is. The Ex Mentioned Above is also HIV positive. Thank God I knew she was Positive all the Time we where in our relationship and I was very careful with her. But this Lady that my EX is going out with does not know she is HIV positive. Should I tell her or just forget about it? I really am not lying about her being HIV positive.

[Fr_Chuck]

First bi , straight or gay, does not matter, ex's sometimes come back, when they do it seldom works, since all of the old issues are still there.

As for HIV positive, the person with it, should have a obligation to tell the other, but how do you know she has not, what lovers talk about on pillow talk is not your concern.

If you tell her and your ex denies it, you will just be seen as a hateful ex to the new lover.

[talaniman]

Sometimes they come back, but never when we want them too, or never THE WAY we want them to. Things change, so don't wait for them to come back, do your own thing, and enjoy yourself whether they do or not.

As to your second question, ask your ex. Act accordingly.

[jahrespect]

Well I know my Ex has not has not yet told the Girl that she is going out with. She is afraid that people might reject her because she is HIV positive.

My only problem is I don't have contact with the lady that my EX is going out with. I only know her name on Facebook. I don't know how to contact her without my EX knowing that I did. I had a plan on way this lady will find out that my ex was HIV positive cause if she looks in the hand bag of my ex she will find the medications that she is suppose to be taking. Or if she visits my EX's house she will find the medications at a certain point. But My Questions what should I do? Should tell someone to tell her or should I tell her myself or should I just not tell? But mind you the health of someone is on line here.

[talaniman]

I have to be honest, you have been broken up, yet you make plans for new years, so you are still in contact, knowing the ex is seeing someone else.

But you say due to health concerns, the other person should know about your ex. So you think your ex will take a chance with this partner? Or you wish to ruin things?

Doesn't matter, you let the ex handle her own business, and do what's right in her own time. Stay out of this, because I can't honestly believe you would be involved with someone who would risk the life of another, or be wanting them back, so ruining her dating life is simply over reacting.

So maybe you rethink your own motives before you get so concerned you act hastily, impulsively, or wrongly. Your intention may be good, but the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

And you don't just announce to casual dating partners your personal health issues. That would be a private matter between serious partners wouldn't it? Or is that what you seek to stop from happening?

[vanheart]

I would just forget both of them.

Let them deal with their situation.

And you deal with yours.

As far as winning her back. Don't even try.

Get yourself checked. HIV and your head.