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georgiakinnnn. · Dec 22, 2011, 09:44 PM

Helloo! I'm Georgia, and I've been meaning to talk to somebody about this boy! I'm 15 in a week or so, and I've been talking to this lad for a week now, and yeah I know I don't really, know him but I think I've find the right lad here. :/ Problem is, that its his age! He's 19 :(! And I don't know what to do! :/
Even though I have a friend she's 16, she goes out with a 21 year old and there releationship is perfectly fine! Please help me need some advice :(.

talaniman · Dec 23, 2011, 02:19 PM

He may sound like the perfect guy to go out with, but it's your parents you must convince, and get approval, and consent from. Make no mistake, they can make a lot of trouble for you both, as he is an adult. You are not.

For sure if this perfect guy leads you to lie to your own family, be less than honest, or go behind their back, or deceive them, or do anything you KNOW the would not approve of, then he is NOT the perfect guy.

Like you said, you don't know him that well, and maybe when you do, he may NOT be so perfect. Not to be harsh but what would a grown guy, an adult be doing talking to a 14, about to be fifteen year old? How do you even meet such a fellow, and does he know your age?

Most guys that old are warned of the dangers of messing with girls that young, and common sense tells them to avoid trouble from protective parents, or other adults, so be aware, cautious, and open with your own family.

Wonder how your friend gets away with her seeing a 21 year old guy?? Bet she has to be pretty sneaky. And that would mean things are NOT perfectly fine.

Hahahaha13 · Dec 28, 2011, 09:52 PM

If you really like him see if he likes you back. If he does date him. It is normal for younger people to date older people. Take some parents, one has to be a few years older than the other right?

georgiakinnnn. · Dec 30, 2011, 10:13 PM

Yeah I always go for olders:') he saod he would never take advantage so.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 30, 2011, 10:20 PM

In spite of what other kids are saying here, no it is not normal and if any of that dating, turned to "touching" even though the clothes, or esp to sex (which is what a 19 year old boy is going to want) Then the boy will be guilty of one or several crimes, from molesting a child, to rape if you two have sex. No one can give permission for that at your age.

Currently in GA, if he is "touching" you, he will get about 1 to 3 years, if you and he had sex he will get from 3 to 7 years. They are convicted almost every week or two in the Atlanta area for this.

A 14 year old has nothing in common with a 19 year old.