[flolo14]

Ok so one of my friends was dating the guy I liked and we aren't like best friends or anything, just friends but then she broke up with him and a few weeks later he asked me out and I said yes. I am terrified to have her find out because even though she isn't a really good friend of mine, it would still hurt to loose her. What do I do?

[starlight0931]

Well first you should probably see how she is feeling about the break up between your boyfriend and her. If she is over him and isn't faking being over him. Tell her what happened. Don't lie that will only make this worse. If she get's really mad well you have to ask yourself is this guy really worth losing your friend or not. We can't answer that for you. :( if you are young I wouldn't bother with this guy only because more then likely you won't end up being with him forever. Trust been there done that.

[I wish]

You have to decide what's important to you. Do you really like this guy so much that you are willing to jepordize the friendship?

[Elena_Baggins]

Be upfront about it. If you really like him, you must tell her about your relationship. You won't have peace of mind with your guy if you avoid it. If they broke up, he is free to date whoever he wants. Nobody belongs to anybody so don't feel guilty about it. Good luck!