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    PlattJewelz Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 17, 2011, 02:33 AM
    My boyfriend won't have sex with me
    Recently my boyfriend has been avoiding sex with me. Even with me drunk off my ***. He rather talk to his baby mama. I know he has to have a relationship with her because of their child but damn, I'm drunk, hornay, and it's 3:30 am. What should I do? Am I tripping for being a little upset that he won't have sex with me, never mind touch me ?
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    Dec 17, 2011, 06:39 AM
    Good men prefer decent sober women. Try NOT getting drunk, and wanting sex because you LOVE him instead.
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    Dec 17, 2011, 08:27 AM
    He don't want to have a sober woman either
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    Dec 17, 2011, 11:13 AM
    We need more information. There's more to it than just "He doesn't want sex".
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    Dec 17, 2011, 11:35 AM
    That's all I got, he just doent want to have sex. I know I isn't ugly. But it could be he's getting sex from someone else. His Facebook page is pretty suspecious because he always likes pictures of females with the *** or tits all up in the camera or almost butt *** naked females.
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    Dec 17, 2011, 11:39 AM
    From the information you gave us, it sounds like he may be preoccupied with his child and his child's mother. How old is the child? If there is stress on him for child support or he is worried about being viewed as abandoning them this could all effect his sex drive. New parents change a lot and what he wanted before might not be the same now. Has something changed or shifted recently along with his sex drive?

    Depending on the age of the child, he could also feel pressure to change himself to be a "father" instead of just a guy.

    I'm just spitballing here. I don't know how many children he has, how long you've been together, or the timeline for any of this. Sorry, wish I could be more helpful. Best of luck.
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    Dec 17, 2011, 01:07 PM
    His child is 7. He hasn't seen her in almost 2 yrs. (the length of our relationship) I don't think he was over is baby mama completely before we met or even started dating.
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    Dec 17, 2011, 11:11 PM
    Lack of sex
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We normally have sex at least once a week. But the last 2 weeks he hasn't touched me. He complained when my period came saying he couldn't get none but once my period stop he didn't want me. If I throw myself on him he rejects me, naked he rejects me, fully clothed and in my fat jeans and nothing. I don't know what to do. I'm feeling an emotional disconnect from him.
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    Dec 18, 2011, 08:58 AM
    Ask him - presumably he knows.

    Why did you repost your question after getting answers?
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