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jessy23 · Dec 11, 2011, 06:00 PM

I recently cheated on my boyfriend with a guy who knows my body so well , he satisfies me more than my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend and don't want to leave him what do I do.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 11, 2011, 06:11 PM

Stop cheating, start teaching your boyfriend how you like things. If you want a real long term relationship, understand it involves more then just the sex.

jessy23 · Dec 11, 2011, 06:16 PM

I know I should but it's like am addicted to this other guy , who I don't love . I know sex isn't everything but how much should it be.

afaroo · Dec 11, 2011, 07:28 PM

Stop cheating if you like this other guy then leave your Boyfriend, Thanks.

John

drboni · Dec 11, 2011, 09:23 PM

You are not in love with your boyfriend. If you love someone, you have their best interests at heart and would like do something that could hurt them badly.

smoothy · Dec 12, 2011, 08:59 AM

How old are you anyway? I ask because this sounds more like the actions of a teenager, than a mature adult. I'm venturing a guess you aren't even in your upper 20's yet.

If you really actually "loved" your boyfriend... you would see what I'm talking about.

There is a HUGE difference between real love and infatuation... a quantum leap between them in fact... but they feel much the same to the young and inexperienced.

As you get older and mature... you will instinctively know that while you "CAN" do something... you will understand you shouldn't.

In a nutshell... I could very easily bang a few different women a week without trying very hard... because with age, I can tell when I see an interest and know what many women like and want...

However, as I said... the flipside being I'm married... and I know few of them will equal much less surpass my wife... so the excitement of "fresh meat" that you think is him knowing you so well. Isn't really him knowing you half as well as you think... and its just the excitement of a new person fooling you.

There is also an old saying everyone knows and has heard... and it does fit this situation to a tee.

"The Grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence."

Its an illusion... once you ARE on the other side for a while... its not going to look nearly as good as it did before.

Saemm · Dec 13, 2011, 04:54 PM

A good relationship isn't built on sex. You will eventually see past it. You should stop cheating on your boyfriend and teach him how to be better, what you enjoy! Your relationship will be a lot stronger