[cjones123]

I'm sixteen years of age and I recently found out that I'm 13 weeks pregnant when I first found out I was scared but then became happy about it now I'm getting further along in my pregnancy my feelings are changing, I'm feeling depressed on some days and happy on others, I sometimes cry most of the day or stay in bed.
I feel like people that iknow are looking at me disgusted and ashamed
My pregnancy was but kind of wasn't planned me and my baby's father had been talking about babies for awhile and decided that we both felt ready for a life time commitment, we just didn't want it too happen so soon.
Now I just feel like maybe I'm wasteing my life away I want too be a teenager and make mistakes and go out and do what I like, how am I suppose too love my child when all I'm feeling at the moment is like that child's holding me back from a lot of things in life.

And yes I am aware I said I thought I was ready for a child but now its happeining I'm just not sure:s

[Tima786]

Hi there.
Like many others, this is a issue a number of teens are experiencing! In your case, well 1st of all the depression and mixed feelings you gng through are quiet normal due to the pregnancy.. U mentioned that people are looking at you in a way you are uncomfortable with.. . Yes,off course they will you shudder just try to look pass it and move 4ward.
You are 16! What makes you thnk you ready for a life time commitment? U barely experienced life yourself! I don't mean to sound rude but you made your bed,u got to lay in it. You n your partner should discuss this ASAP and prepare to sacrifice a lot but it doesn't mean your life is over,not at all! It's just beginning so all the best to u!

[LearningAsIGo]

A mother-to-be of any age will have the fears and doubts that you do. Unfortunately, at your age it sounds like you're realizing that some things will be more difficult for you than if you were older.

It may take some time to make peace with the fact that your life is about to change dramatically. Have you decided for sure to keep the baby rather than choose adoption?

If you do plan on keeping this child, you'll need to start thinking about how he/she will be cared for, your schooling, relationships, financials, etc. For both you and the baby, it might be wise to discuss the arrangements with the father and even set up something in writing such as custody and child support. It will not be easy but you are strong enough to do whatever you set your mind too--with the right support.

[cjones123]

Thank you, both of you!
You've really helped me