[MIKEloe]

Okay me and my girl were dating for 6 months allot happened then we broke up this is what she told me why ''you make no sense" you piss me off""you lie"I don't like how you do things.well a week later she hooks up with this dude.. then after a month passed by I talked to her and we got back cause I convinced her I changed and I kind of did so we start dating again and everything is going great and we de sited to drop our ex's that were were in that month so we were really open with each other.. she told me she slept with him :/ and I told her I slept with my ex too so two weeks later she text her ex during that month then I get all insecure but I tell her I still trust her so.. 2 days later I seen one of my old chick friends on face book and tell her she's pretty but not as pretty as my girl she goes all mad saying why why why did you say that and then we took care of that she was good and okay. Then the next day she starts ignoring me :( she stopped tex ting me she ignores me then she talks to one of her friends and she went to meet him and our status says on the relation ship were still together but she's ignoring everything I tell her.. what do I do ? Should I be worried?

[mara1954]

When two people engage in a relationship that is on one day, off the next, emotions do not have time to keep up. There is some control going on here also and that is never good in a relationship. Ignoring you is not OK, but all you can do is go on with your life. Keep enjoying friends and doing things but always be kind to her so she knows she can always approach you when she is ready. If she comes back, there needs to be an understanding that if either one of you gets angry, you always talk about it with the understanding that there needs to be a cool off period for a few days. When you love someone, you don't tell other members of the opposite sex how pretty or hot they are. This is flirting and indicates you are not really committed. Spend lots of time hanging around as a group. Plan a night to go bowling, or roller skating and make it fun. You deserve happiness.

[geminichick]

In all honesty, you probably shouldn't have told this girl that she was pretty, even if it was backed up by, "but not as pretty as my girl"! That can make a woman pretty jealous. The most important thing in a relationship is open communication. Listening to her and how she feels and you do the same when she is expressing her feelings. Innocent flirting is not a crime as long as it does not exceed beyond that. It's very common for men to look at other women even when they are in committed relationships.

Just give her a little time. If she refuses to talk to you, you really should try to talk to her. BTW, how did she find out about you talking to this girl on Facebook?