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    Arwenos Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 1, 2011, 11:16 AM
    When I come close to orgasm, I ''wet'' myself.
    So, I'm getting abit worried. I'm 98% sure it isn't 'Female ejaculation'. When I masturbate, I feel like I can't get turned on unless I rub my ****. But the problem is that once I do that, I pee myself when I feel like I'm about to orgasm.
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    Dec 1, 2011, 02:00 PM
    Have you been to the doctor? Do you know if you have a weak bladder? When we orgasm, we usually clench hard, then completely relax, so I'm sure you're not alone with this problem. How are you sure you're not in the minority of women that ejaculate? Some people even believe that's what 'squirting' is, that it's just urine.

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    Dec 8, 2011, 04:15 AM
    Try going pee before you start. If it still happens, there is a chance that you are a "squirter". When a female ejaculates it comes out of the urethra, but is not urine. I have also read that any woman can learn how to ejaculate, but that is a completely different subject.

    "In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate." http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/female_ejaculation.htm

    If you Google "female ejaculation" you can find a lot of information on the subject, and can learn how to tell if you are peeing or "squirting" if it is the latter, I congratulate you. There aren't many women who can do it naturally.
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    Dec 8, 2011, 10:27 AM
    Unfortunately, there is no definitive scientific information on female ejaculation. Everything is just speculation at this point.

    If you've emptied your bladder before starting sexual stimulation, then I wouldn't worry about it.
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    Dec 9, 2011, 09:12 AM
    Its not that uncommon for a woman to leak pee when she has an orgasm... the muscles that control that are tied in and during the contractions if you have anything in your bladder.. some will leak out with many women. Not all, but many (from personal observation). As Synnen stated... empty your bladder before having sex... and its far less likely to happen.

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