[cerisacerisato]

Hi I'm with my boyfriend for 4 months but we never had sex! We would meet like two or three times a week alone but still nothing. He loves me I love him too, his hands would be all over me, me the same with him I give him blowjobs and all but still no sex. I'm 25 he's 23, he's careful really likes me and I'm all his, but I don't understand what is it! Can anyone have an explanation or any sugestions?

[Wondergirl]

The reason could be simple or very complex. It could be he's saving himself for marriage or he has a health problem of some sort. He could be very shy or he could have a religious reason. The only way you will find out is to ask him.

[Cat1864]

Ultimately, he is the only person who can tell you.

Do either of you have your own place or are family/roommates an issue?

Has timing been off for doing anything more? In other words is he tired, distracted, stressed, etc.

Is he afraid of getting you pregnant? No matter how careful a couple is no form of birth control is 100% effective. At times, it seems nature delights in beating the odds.

You're going to have to ask him. It is part of being in a relationship. If you can't talk about why you aren't having sex, then it doesn't bode well for other topics of discussion in the future.

Good luck.

[Aikirie]

I would ask him, he knows better than anyone else. I wouldn't take it personally, maybe he just isn't ready to go all the way. It could be any number of reasons.

[smoothy]

He doesn't want to take a chance of getting you pregnant... I think that's the most likely reason.

He actually paid attention in sex ed classes and knows even with birth control... it can happen.