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    littleone01 Posts: 18, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 8, 2007, 09:15 PM
    Still in love
    Can you help a girl...

    Can you help a girl, who is still desperatly in love with her ex. We broke up 4 years ago.. We've both moved on.. (both in relationships ).. but I can't get over him.. I re-read a journal I had written 8 yrs ago about him and it still give me a smile.. I love him?? :p
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    Feb 9, 2007, 08:10 AM
    You could start by taking the advice given in your other two posts. If you are not willing to do the work, then how do you expect to heal. Sorry to be harsh but its you keeping the dream alive so put the scrapbook and pictures up and get busy with building a life you enjoy with this relationship before he figures out you are OBSESSED with an ex who has been gone for 4 yes 4 years. That's not healthy, so get busy with reality.
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    Feb 9, 2007, 08:32 AM
    Honestly, I respect the fact that your honest, but on another note, Im irratated with the fact that you seem to be answering all my posts.. Come on.. Secondly.. obsessed is a strong word.. if anyone.. had the type of relationship that I had, you or they would understand.. like said.. it's a strong word.. In these posts I am asking for advice not opinion...
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    Feb 9, 2007, 09:02 AM
    I honestly hope I am never in that situation. 4 years, that's torture!!
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    Feb 9, 2007, 09:10 AM
    If you notice I answer almost all the posts here in this forum and this is my advice and if you don't like it then do whatever you want. Check your facts, 4 years of pining is obsessive. And unfair to your b/f. You have 2 other posts about the same thing so I know you have a lot of different views and now you are back with more of the same. Sorry to be harsh but I think you need to see what everyone else sees.
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    Feb 12, 2007, 07:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by littleone01
    Can you help a girl...

    Can you help a girl, who is still desperatly in love with her ex. We broke up 4 years ago.. We've both moved on.. (both in relationships ).. but I can't get over him.. I re-read a journal I had written 8 yrs ago about him and it still give me a smile.. I love him ???:p
    I guess you do!

    Do something about it.
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    Apr 7, 2007, 01:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by littleone01
    Can you help a girl...

    Can you help a girl, who is still desperatly in love with her ex. We broke up 4 years ago.. We've both moved on.. (both in relationships ).. but I can't get over him.. I re-read a journal I had written 8 yrs ago about him and it still give me a smile.. I love him ???:p
    Hi, I know exactly how you are feeling. I love a guy da same way. We wer in love for about 2 years en den his family said we could not get married as our stars didn't match en that we wer going to have a bad future, well he avoids me now thinking I will forget him if he did that, I can't get over him, I came on this site because I don know what to do. People say he don love me en I should forget him en not try to call him or text but I cant, I love him en always will, I know he loves me but he also loves his family. He is trying ot be da bad guy so I can forget him but I cant.
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    Apr 7, 2007, 08:51 PM
    I wonder what happened...
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    Apr 7, 2007, 08:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by littleone01
    Can you help a girl...

    Can you help a girl, who is still desperatly in love with her ex. We broke up 4 years ago.. We've both moved on.. (both in relationships ).. but I can't get over him.. I re-read a journal I had written 8 yrs ago about him and it still give me a smile.. I love him ???:p
    Yea love sux sometimes. Sry that's not much help but I feel you
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