[xolainne]

For past two years I fell in love with someone that I've love since I was young, so he than ask me why I must not tell him what I was thinking because he knew that bond between us. So I told him that I love him and he knew it very well that I love him and he love me. He invited me in his house from 2009 till now but I only find out earlier this year thing that he was cheating with my friend.
What can I do because I love him and I know he love me, my friend was jelous about our relationship and Im glad to find out that he was cheating with "him".
Must I break-up with him?
What must I do to my friend?

[Cat1864]

I am thoroughly confused. I am hoping there is a simple language barrier and all of this can be cleared up:

How old are you? And where are you living? Does your boyfriend know about your uncle and his demands?

In this thread you say that you are young and are afraid to come out to your mother because she has said that she will 'kick out' any of her children who is gay: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/emotio...ay-609399.html

In this thread, you discuss your uncle raping you when you were nine and, now, over the past year making demands and threats to get sex: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/emotio...ml#post2939961

Now, you have a boyfriend who it sounds like from this post you are living with (and have been for two years) who is cheating on you with your friend.

The easiest part of this is the friend. IF your friend is jealous and intent on breaking up your relationship with your boyfriend, then he isn't a friend. Let go of his concept of friendship and concentrate on other friends while making new ones.

Do you know for a fact that your boyfriend has cheated or is this something someone else told you? If he is cheating on you, have you talked to him? Is he remorseful or blaming everyone but himself?

Quite frankly, without having some of the confusion cleared up, I am finding it difficult to give too much advice on what to do about the situation because I am uncertain what the situation is.

[xolainne]

Let me make it clear that I was asked by someone that because I was talking about this site of ask me help desk and she begg me on how can I get advice for her because they had been in their relationship for the past two years, so I must ask as if that was me. So please people don't be confused!

[Cat1864]

xolainne, if possible can you get your friend to make her own account and post her question? It will help because then we can get information from her to be able to give her the best advice we can for her situation.

It is good that you want to help your friend, but it would be better if she asks for herself. Is there a reason why she didn't ask?

Also, when you do ask a question for someone else, you can say that it is for your friend and why the friend isn't doing the asking instead of making it sound as though you are asking for yourself.

What advice have you given your friend? How has she reacted to what you have told her?