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    mylifeismylike Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 24, 2011, 08:51 PM
    Is she only friends or someone more?
    Hey.. I love a girl like anything but I don't know what she wanted?. I met this girl in new tuition. We soon became friends.. and atlast I fall in love with her.. We chated on IM's for long times, done on phone conversations n talked in tuition a lot. When I thought that she had started liking me I asked her that DID SHE LIKE mE?. She replied yes!. I was very happy.. We continued our network. A month later or two.. I asked DID SHE LOVE ME?. She said that she likes me a lot.maybe love me.. But does not wanted to be in relationships.. the reason she stated was that she was afraid of her mother( or something else she did not wanted to tell). After this also I did not lose hope because I have a fellin in my mind that she likes me too!

    Now its 2-3 months after proposal.. I still love her very much n wanted her!. After the proposal also the thing remains the same ,we chated.. Talked etc etc... But for last 15-20 days a change in her behaviour have been observed.. She had started taking me more as casual.. When I try to start a romantic conversion she would rather overturn the topic( which she did not do earlier).. Now she is chattin with me as friendly.. Using words with less respect ( tu.. Tujhe etc etc. In Hindi lang.).. These words are generally used by cruel friends or sometimes in as casual!).. I'm very confused what she wanted now and why is her attitude changed towards me?. Please give your opinions with reasons too! Thanks in advance


    Additional Details
    I know these detail that I'm going to give is WORTHLESS but then also I wanted to tell you!
    1. She is a beauty queen.. While I am a very ordinary looking person.. Many boys wanted to be in relationship with her.. Also she could find a hot stud to hangout with easily!. But I'm pity sure that she could not find a person with a good nature n behaviour like me!
    2. She is 1 inch more in height with me.. This is a thing not to worry about as my high heeled shoes n spiky hairstyle could cover it easily!. N if she really liked me she could manage a little for both the additionals!
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    vanheart Posts: 2,806, Reputation: 708
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    Oct 24, 2011, 11:07 PM
    You are worrying about a girl, before you have really gotten to know her.

    Do you like me? Do you love me? Do you like me? Do you love me?
    "When I try to start a romantic conversion she would rather overturn the topic"

    How about enjoying your conversations without pushing her.

    Maybe see what other things are out there. Not be so desperate.

    Never propose until you know it's the right time.

    This isn't the right time.

    "She is 1 inch more in height with me"

    Well. That's too tall.


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    mmresd Posts: 2,002, Reputation: 553
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    Oct 25, 2011, 12:24 PM
    Enjoy her friendship, get to know her, and maybe a relationship will develop. I think she is feeling like you are pushing her into being in a relationship with you, this will cause the observed change in behavior real quick. Stop being so pushy, enjoy her company, and most important of all, be someone whose company SHE can enjoy.
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    Oct 25, 2011, 02:58 PM
    My friend you obviously want more than she is willing to give, and I think she sees you as friend, and that's all.

    Forget romance, and love, IF YOU CAN. If you cannot, leave her alone.

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