[mame_chula123]

Haha hi..
Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this guy I really like but he's a senior. He is 18 and I am 14, I don't know if I should try anything with him. I heard that seniors pressure you on having (hehe umm sex). Can you please help me if I should date him?

[AQuietMind]

First of all, you should see if you have anything in common with him. If you don't want the relationship to be about sex, base it on something else?

Do you have similar hobbies? Interests? Ideas?

From my own experience, a relationship can last a while if you find something else to enjoy, and have a laugh about.

Second, if you do end up dating him, and he pressures you for sex, Don't GIVE IN. The few moments of joy at a young age are not worth the problems it could lead up to!

If he continuously pressures you for it, it's not meant to be.

A relationship can go far based on something other than sex.

[DaniCalifornia]

In my opinion, he's too old for you. 18 is an age when males are rather a lot about sex, whether they intend to be, or not. Their hormones are raging. They many not all pressure you directly into sex, but you'll end up wanting to act more mature than you really are, because of his age. If he asks for it, you should tell an adult. It's disgusting.

X Dani

[jetgemini]

Right now that is a lot of pressure for both of you. It may not even be legal for him to date you since he is legally an adult and you are a minor. The sex issue is a whole different ball of wax. Since the state has taken over the chore of teaching sex education we seem to have an increase in unwed mothers and fathers. Maybe the financial repercussions should be addressed. You sound like an intelligent girl if you are questioning yourself on this issue. Enjoy your life and have fun. Go on group dates when you are a little older. I have three grown daughters and they practiced abstinence but they still had fun and had babies after they were married.