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    mixtapeshuffle Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 11, 2011, 11:37 PM
    My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex.
    My boyfriend and I were both very frisky in the beginning, It was great, In fact through out our relationship I have been mildly insecure about how sexual he was in prior years (he's had manny sexual partners, like TONS) He's turned over a new leaf and he is a great man. But naturally this makes me worried that I can't live up to his expectations,I'm a very thin attractive girl and I know that he isn't cheating. So is there something I'm doing? I'm 23 and he's 30, and other than the fact that I want to be having sex a lot more than once every two weeks everything is great. I'm bad initiating, maybe I need some tips or suggestions?
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    Oct 12, 2011, 03:40 AM
    The best tips you can get are from talking to the man himself.

    I doubt you're 'not satisfying him', so just talk to him to try and gauge whether there's a problem. He might just be stressed.

    X Dani


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    Oct 12, 2011, 11:21 AM
    I am going through the same thing. I recently talked with my boyfriend and we have a 6 month old son and his hours at work have changed. Aks your boyfriend what is going on. He could be stressed out about something. In time it does slow down and is not as frequent.
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    Oct 14, 2011, 10:01 AM
    Well men do slow down at times. This period may last up to a week or months. All you need is to talk to him. Sometimes there are physical problems also. In anyway ED or erectile dysfunction is a problem that can be treated in hours.

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