[JessGigglesAlot]

Ok, I'm 15 turning 16 next month.. me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and he said he pulled out, but I didn't start to worry a little until I found out you can still get pregnant even if he pulled out, which he did.. so what do I do? I need advice. Thanks

[Cat1864]

How long ago did you have sex? How old is your boyfriend?

The first thing you need to do is talk to your parents/guardians and get an appointment for a gynecological exam. Even if you aren't pregnant you need a check up and to discuss birth control options with a doctor.

You might consider being honest with your parents about what you have been up to so that they don't find out by you announcing a possible/probable pregnancy. They may be upset and they may have very negative reactions, but it will be better than if they find out another way.

If you don't feel like you can tell them on your own, is there another adult such as a family member, school counselor, etc. who you can ask to be there with you for support?

Since I highly doubt either of you are ready to be parents, I suggest that you don't play adult games. Instead of experimenting with sex, experiment with non-sexual ways to have fun and get to know each other better. IF your parents still allow you to see him, that is.

[Fr_Chuck]

Agree, since you believe you are mature and old enough to have sex, now you have to be old enough and mature enough to take responsibility for your actions.

You need to see if you miss your next period. But also be concerned over STD and other issues.

[JessGigglesAlot]

He's 16 and it was like for a half hour..